I've been praying and searching and making the first moves. And, I've shared my heart and desires with hubby weeks ago. Yesterday three wishes granted in one day:
1. Small group Bible studies are really not my thing if I'm not familiar with all the players. My introvert comes out to big time. And, sometimes my judgement. We started a small group for a 6 week series last year about this time. I said to Keith before we started "this is only for 6 weeks, right? If we both don't feel like the group is right, we'll leave, right?" Well, you can probably see where this is going. The group was not right for us. I could tell them that because we'd signed up with an out. Hubby could not. So, for the better part of a year he's been attending a small group and giving the excuse of "my job" or "the boys" as to why I don't attend. (I'm certain no one saw through that). It bothered me. Really bothered me. Bothered me because Hubby did a study on Tuesday night without me too (an education class at church). Bothered my pride. Bothered me because should I just get over my bad self and submit to what my husband wanted? I had to be viewed pooly in all this. Surely everyone involved in both of those studies must think we had a screwed up relationship. WISH #1 GRANTED: We started a short-term couples Bible study on Friday nights and this week Hubby left his Sunday night small group.
2. We set a weekly exercise schedule for the week, where we work out at the same time. Now, I'm a work out in solitude kind-of-gal, but it is good to have an accountability partner and I really want my husband running and getting more healthy. WISH #2 GRANTED: the family that exercises together gets healthy together!
3. A couple in our church invited Hubby and I to with them to a Christian concert this week. WISH #3 GRANTED: "our people" date night!
God is so very faithful. When we tell Him the desires of our heart, sometimes they match His desires for us and our wishes are granted. I know He isn't a genie in a bottle waiting to grant my wishes -- but I do know that when I'm working towards His plans for me, He hears and sometimes my heart's desire is granted to encourage me to keep moving in the right direction.
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